To see the change of phonon frequencies of graphene, you may first do a supercell calculation for a single graphene sheet on the metal surface of your interest at the actual equilibrium separation distance between the graphene sheet and metal surface.
You then increase the separation distance to a larger value to significantly reduce the interaction between the graphene sheet and metal surface, and do a supercell calculation once again. This should give you an idea on how the phonon frequencies change upon decoupling graphene from the metal surface, i.e., upon increasing the separation distance.
For the sake of comparison, you may also want doing two additional supercell calculations for a free-standing graphene sheet and a bare metal surface without graphene. For both calculations, one should adopt the same supercell as that in the graphene-metal system.
All that information should allow you making some conclusions on the effect of the metal substrate on the phonon frequencies of supported graphene.