1. Difference? The field, obviously... Oh you mean with/without electrode (even at zero bias). It could depend on the distance, if the electrodes are close to the silicene, since they change the boundary condition at the edge of the simulation cell from periodic to Neumann.
2. There is a very complicated way to do that, using Born effective charges, which I will not go into there, but you can make a "slab-like" configuration of the silicene and use the same setup with metal electrodes to create an in-plane field.