This is a bit tricky to solve over a Forum, because I don't think it's directly related to QuantumATK itself, more about the MPI itself.
One thing I learned from a quick Google search is that the error message about tmi.conf seems to be related to Myrinet, which historically has been more tricky to use than using Infiniband (which should be the default).
Are you using "mpd" to boot MPI on multiple machines (normally not needed with hydra)? If so, is there an option -MX passed to mpd?